Titles Should Mean Something…

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On Monday, I was featured in the Tech & U section of the News Straits Times daily. Friends started asking about my pageantry days. Ive blogged about it years ago here. It was a combination of excitement and frustration; not for the importance of winning the coveted titles but for the way the contestants were being treated. I bet those who were there would know what exactly Im talking about. I’m thankful I came away with a sash each time, some congeniality titles, clothes, prize money and my dignity. It opened doors for me but it didn’t make me favoured over the others who could probably do the job better than I could. I would never bank on beauty to get me through life because I know I can’t fight the signs of times. You are only as beautiful as how others see you, if you have no substance, no principles, no love, you have nothing at all.

When you fight for what you believe in, you are keeping your principles alive. Where does one build these principles? From life’s great experiences and God’s grace to know what’s right from wrong, what’s good from bad and what’s just from the unjust. In a time where people choose to sit on the fence to watch the battle, you can choose whether you want to be with the allies or the opponent. Whatever you choose, it would be a reflection of who you are and what you represent and to me, it speaks more than the many titles that one holds in their lifetime. What use would it be if a Datuk or Tan Sri acquire the title and not use their influence to make the lives of the people who are less fortunate a little bit more decent? Or what use would the CEO of the company be if he doesn’t influence his circle to give back to the society? What good would my titles be, if I don’t use what I’ve learnt to bring cheer and hope to those who are lost and joy to those who are sullen? It doesn’t even have to be a big effort. It starts with the sweeper on the street who keeps your driveway free from dry leaves, the rubbish man who diligently empties the bin for you, the stallkeeper who serves you drinks and the toilet cleaner who keeps the lavatory in your office building clean. Your smile and greeting would mean the world to them. Bringing them a drink or some cookies would let them know how much you appreciate them for their thankless service. Asking them about their day would make them get by theirs a little better. It makes you a better person for coming down from your self-raised pedestal.

Life is only temporary but life in Christ is eternal. What I sow I also reap, what is given away would be replenished and what is taken would be restored ten fold. What have I got to withhold from those who’s got nothing??? I have a roof over my head, food whenever I need, a Mac to keep me entertained, a camera to capture my fascination and a dog to keep me company at home, what else can I lack??? God has given me everything and it’s time to give back. Come join me in my little missions!!!

Note: You can read about the NST article here.

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